The Complications of the Pursuit

So Ladies and Gentlemen I have returned with another scenario...hopefully this will make you analyze your actions and open up some interesting dialogue between yourself and others.

I was talking to my lb the other night he was running down a situation in his life and to sum it up briefly it went like this.

Girl Liked Boy and expressed her intentions.
Boy kinda sort of liked girl, but not too much.
Boy liked Girl alot then expressed intentions.
Girl didn't like boy as much anymore.

Think about that for a second. How many times has that happened to you? The complications of the pursuit is a never ending problem that we all face. Why does this happen? What can we do to fix it? Can this life conundrum ever be solved?

Personally, I don't think it can be solved, but you can get lucky. If you can deal with the rejection of not having your intentions reciprocated when you express them and continue to push forward, then you my friend can succeed with your pursuit of what you desire. Now, for the majority of people who, instantly lose interest once you get your legs cut from under you, what exactly can you do to succeed? I guess you have to ask yourself a few questions before you decide. Either choice you make, you have to proceed with caution. Is he/she worth continuing pursuit? Can I handle more rejection? Is the risk of the chase worth the reward? Some cases its a no brainer. You have to keep pushing, maybe the person needs a little more time for you to prove yourself, and them to mentally prepare themselves for you. In other cases you may be a victim of better competition. Hey, It happens. Someone was better than you, get over it, pick up the pieces and return to dock to fish for a better catch. One thing we all have to remember is, anything worth having is worth working for, if its easy to catch, its easier to lose...Think about that one for a while!

Well...Thanks for Listening people!

Progressing Daily, MCW

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